Different people run for different reasons. I'm writing this blog simply because as the Virgin London Marathon (VLM) draws closer, so many people ask me if I'm running the marathon. When I answer 'no, I'm not a marathon runner', they are always surprised and question my reasoning.
I always do my best to explain my decision, but never really seem to do it justice, because it always ends up with them saying 'well I think you should do a marathon'. Which means they have not understood what I have told them or they just weren't listening.
Even other runners, just don't get it - so here, once and for all, are my reasons why I will never run a marathon. However I do reserve the right to change my mind at any time in the future, in other words no-one else will change it for me.
So why do people, runners and non-runner persistently attempt to persuade me to run a marathon? I think the answer is because they think I could. I'm pretty sure I could too, but that not the issue. Other people have seen me run 4,000 miles in my first 3 years as a runner, and 2,009 miles in one year alone (in 2009) see video of my last mile here.
In November and December last year I ran long distance virtually every day and covered over 250 miles a month. I often run 12 to 15 miles, and occasionally run 20 miles along the canal towpath from Leeds back to my home in Keighley. So I do understand WHY people keep asking me.
The reasons why I will never run a marathon.
First of all permit me to make one thing very clear. I admire, even envy anyone who trains and runs marathons, especially non-runners, new runners, first timers and old timers.
But my running is mainly impromptu, and lacks any serious organisation at all. I'm now competant enough to run on a whim with little or no planning, no special diet or carb loading, and will simply put my trainers on and set off.
A marathon requires a dedicated and regimented training plan. I have neither the patience nor inclination to stick to a plan. Any such plans would ruin my 'wild running' free spirit and compromise my enjoyment.
I also tend to have an obsessive personality, and if I did decide to train for 6 months in preparation for a marathon, I know my focus might possibly cause problems at home, with my work and our lifestyle, because I know I wouldn't want to do anything else.
But would all the effort really be worth it? Well that's the risk everyone takes because upon committing to this training program, it's all for ONE DAY and anything could go wrong i.e. illness or injury which hinders training, or even prevents taking part on the big day.
Then there's things beyond our direct control, for example, this year (2010) no-one really knows how many people have missed the VLM because of the closed airspace due to the Icelandic Volcano.
Assuming everthing goes to plan, and all the training goes well, and the hotels are charging 300% more for that weekend. Getting to the city and then the race itself is a logistical nightmare. Not too mention getting through the crowds to the starting pens sometimes for an hour before the race start. Now some runners love the buzz of all this commotion - I personally hate it.
The London Marathon in particular is no longer a serious running event, it's now the world largest (and controversial) fund raiser where you are at serious risk of being over taken by a sunflower or sumo wrestler. There's nothing wrong with that, except I'm already a dedicated fund raiser, and cannot justify the hundreds of pounds it would cost for this one annual event.
There is another more personal reason why I would never run a marathon, FEAR, which I only realised when my friend ran the Paris Marathon in 2009. I trained for the event with him, often running up to 20 miles. It was only days before the Paris Marathon when he had to pull out of training due to a torn calf muscle. I continued to run the full 18 miles on my own, whilst he limped to call for a lift. There was no more training from that day, until the actual day of the event, so his 'taper' came a little earlier than normal.
On the day of the event, all was going well until around 20 miles when his calf tore again, and he limped home 75 minutes outside his projected finish time. He was devasted, and quit running. It took me a very long time to get him back, and I fear that would happen to me. Because I love running so much, I don't even want to take that chance.
Possibly one of the most important reasons I would never run a marathon is because I don't believe I have anything to prove to anyone but myself. So in the persuit of new challenges, I seek to be different, like running 127 miles along the Leeds to Liverpool canal towpath, possibly in both directions. But I will do that quietly in my own time, one section at a time. After which, I will find another personal challenge, like training for an Olympic Triathlon.
So, I do hope you now understand what I mean when I say 'I'm not a marathon runner'. There's no single reason, but a combination of many.
Very well put, Stephen! I personally enjoy marathons and races in general, but don't get why it's such a single-minded goal for so many people. It's almost as frustrating as online running communities that are so focused on racking up mileage (which makes sense technically, since it's far easier to add miles together than come up with a formula to measure "good" training).
ReplyDeleteI'm totally on your side with the laid back "lace up and go" mentality. For me, I use an upcoming race to give some structure to this, lest I end up running for hours a day, never see my wife, and probably end up single. It's interesting that you're able to run so much and yet fear that a formal training plan would cause your focus to make it more time consuming.
I'll be a borderline jerk and join the ranks of people suggest you should "give it a go," but I'll try to be cooler than them ;-) and suggest it in this light: don't follow a strict training plan, don't sign up for a huge, expensive marathon, and don't feel like if you aren't feeling 100% that day then it's all a waste. Don't do it to prove anything to yourself or others; don't do it for the medal or the people who say you should (I know, self included!), but do it to find out if you like it or not. And - most importantly - if you don't want to, don't.
My wife does not enjoy marathons. She knows this because after I'd run a few she figured she'd give it a shot. She hated the training, the didn't enjoy the distance of the race, and now she knows she's a sprinter.
Thanks for that post Keith.
ReplyDeleteFrom my point of view, I will run 26.2 miles when I'm ready, but it won't be focused on ONE DAY. It will be when I'm ready (or not).
It will probably be a 26.2 miles on a misty morning canal towpath where I can enjoy the scenery, the wildlife, the boats chugging slowly between lock gates.
Imagine greeting the fishermen, walkers and other runners with a cheery 'morning' as they pass in the other direction with a nod.
So I think I will stay with my plan, which is not ever to run a marathon. But it doesn't rule out that I may soon run 26.2 miles.
I get it and I'm with you :)
ReplyDeleteAlex, it freeks me out when someone (gets anything I say) at 53 yrs old it's still rare that anyone does. So thank you indeed :0)
ReplyDeleteWell said Steveo, nicely put! Its well written and brings a bit of reality! Its nice to do something that you love doing and not something people want you to do. I would love to run again. If you remember, my running was always in very short bursts. I did later in life take up longer distances, but the milkman in me always wanted to make me stop at every doorstep I approached. Well done on all the money you have raised. And every luck for the future. I hope to see you soon...Kelly.
ReplyDeleteStephen I hear what you're saying and understand why you don't run a marathon. I am in awe of the way you keep your work, home, run balance.
ReplyDeleteKeep enjoying running. x
I completely understand your reasoning for not wanting to run a marathon. I have completed one and am contemplating pulling out of my second. The training takes over my life and I end up injured and have started to not enjoy running. Marathons aren't for everyone and if you know your own limitations, whatever they may be, I say good for you. Keep enjoying running.
ReplyDeleteThanks Renee. Its not the distance I object to, it's simply the 'event'.
ReplyDeleteI can run 26 miles any time I feel it's right for me, but in an event, you arrive at the start line even if it's not feeling right.
I do long miles in regular training anyway, so 26 on the spur of the moment suits me better than and officially recorded marathon event.